The right path...

Its a difficult world we live in, with many uncertainties and what ifs to consider. Its easier living the moment and not trying to forecast the future, but fortune-telling happens to the best of us, even for those steadfast carpe diem-type individuals. There will always be experiences or situations or scenarios which will question our beliefs, our principals, or even our sheer determination. Most of the time its just a small nudge, and we may get pushed off path but in no time we're back on track and raring to go again. But sometimes we get shoved off track and getting back on the initial path takes considerable effort and time. What if we get shoved and we crash? What if we get shoved and end up being forced to look for or assume another path? Its a difficult life we live in, and sometimes I wonder if I was even on the right path to begin with.

I'm at a crossroads, perhaps I should consider the road less traveled...

Word of mouth

Today, I witnessed first hand how the power of word-of-mouth has currently made Chatime, a Taiwanese-origin tea chain one of the hottest names in the Malaysian F&B industry. As I stood in the queue (at the Gardens branch) awaiting my turn to place my order, I watched as the number of people queuing increased in a matter of minutes. It didn't help that I was making 12 orders, which somewhat held up the line. As I waited for my order while it was being prepared, a small crowd gathered, at least 15-20 people, all waiting for their respective orders. I looked around and saw some saunter into queue while others hurried to get a few spots ahead, almost afraid that the tea will run out. For those waiting, some waited while chatting with a friend or two. A few seemed anxious - waiting impatiently to get their hands what their hearts desire. People, mostly adults, had the gleam in their eyes, like a child waiting excitedly for the new toy daddy is about to hand him.10 minutes later, as I collected my order, the waiting crowd had grown larger and the queue longer. It reminds me of the time when Big Apple Donuts came to town. Queues were lined zig-zag and it took 30 minutes to place an order. Nowadays, the queues aren't as long. Hence, I think this is just a phase and in no time people will realise that although Chatime is good, it is not great. Perhaps I'm just not buying the hype, or it has been hyped up excessively that I expected an out of this world experience, only to be disappointed. But hey, the constant mentioning of Chatime by my colleagues eventually compelled me to try it, so recommendations/ testimonials/ word-of-mouth are arguably some of the best means of marketing. 

A slow day

I have nothing to say - such was my day today. Uneventful, mundane...definitely not as productive as I would have wanted it to be. I might as well hit the sack soon. Wait! I know, I'll job hunt. Who knows; maybe I'll find something that would tickle my fancy...

Back-to-work blues

I don't want to sound like a broken record here, but I acknowledge the fact that I write quite a bit about work and work-related matters. But I can't help it. Much of my life revolves around work, considering I work, on average, 12-hour days and sometimes over the weekends. The past 2 months or so since my last post has been hectic, and it wasn't until 7 days ago that my girlfriend (who, for the record, also works her butt off) and I took a long-awaited and much-needed time off from our daily routines and the hustle and bustle of city life. 

We "disappeared" to a quaint and private boutique resort on Tioman Island, located off the east coast of Peninsular Malaysia. We spent 4 days/3 nights at the resort and practically did nothing. The exclusivity of the resort helped us with our need for rest, relaxation and most importantly privacy. Our vacation coincided with a 3-day festive holiday which allowed us to take the whole week off.

7 days later, the vacation's over and its back to the daily grind. Normalcy resumes and I am dreading going back to work tomorrow. I guess its common to have such 'withdrawal symptoms' after such an awesome chilled out vacation. I'm sure many are feeling the back-to-work blues today. My only consolation is I know I'm not alone... 

2 pints and a stiff neck

That's the story of my day today. My team and I somewhat decided that we are going to abort a project - what remains is the dirty bit i.e. informing the client that we think the project stinks and we have better things to look into. Well, its more along the lines of we think continuing with the project does more harm than good to every party involved. But we still feel for the client who does not have a plan B!

Spent most of the day with a stiff neck that got worse as the day went on. Colleagues found it amusing that I walked like a robot - I didn't really see the funny side of things though. Left very early (by my standards) for drinks at a bar/lounge which is owned/run by a guy whose father is a very close friend of the father of my very close friend and the father of the guy who owns/runs the bar is the father of another son who is a superior of another close friend who works in Singapore. If I have not confused you yet, now that is a very small world! 

A much-deserved relaxing weekend

I spent a few hours this weekend exploring Technical Analysis/Charting in greater detail (than many times previously). Its not as difficult as I thought. In fact, it is fascinating! I'm also looking at buying a new golf set to get myself ready for the investment banking tournament in October. The joy of being able to finally have some free time to hangout with my girlfriend, have an ice cold Corona, catch some dvds and just sit back and relax, have some quality time to myself - akin to going away on a holiday to recuperate, without actually leaving town. I'm already looking forward to more relaxing weekends. Note to self though - must find a regular massage outlet.

Just when I thought...

...it was high time I get back into shape, my right knee decides to screw up my plans. A futsal tourney in 6 weeks time and a golf tourney in 3 months, but its looking like I'll be missing them both. What a shame, I was really looking forward to some competition, the type I thrive on. I don't know where I'll be even in the next 6 months, so for those who think "there's always next year", you may want to think again. Sigh, I hope the injury's not as serious as it seems; perhaps all I need is a week of good rest. 

Get back to where you once belong...

Its was more than two months since my last golf game, but it was certainly one of my better rounds in a long time. The heat was stifling, but I managed to play 15 holes of decent golf. On the last 3 holes, I was just trying to finish the game, and to avoid a sunstroke. Yes, it was the kind of heat that'll kill you. Besides a good round, I also managed to get an excellent tan, a tan on top of the natural one I already have.

I've actually missed golfing. Growing up, I had ample time to golf and do all the things I enjoyed. On many occasions, playing 9-holes after a long day at school was therapeutic. But these days, finding the time for a round is as rare as getting a good night's sleep. And when I do have the option of sleeping in over golf, chances are I'll take the former. Having free time  or even alone time is a rarity nowadays, so the idea of playing a round of golf which would probably take 6 hours (from the time I leave, play my round and return home) remains an idea.

Having said that, its saddening how we're always tied-up with work, events, weddings, gatherings, etc that we hardly spend time on the things we used to love and enjoy growing up. For me, it has always been golf and sports in general. Now, I get most satisfaction in a good meal. How times have changed!

However, every time I look in the mirror, I'm reminded of why I should revert back to my healthy ways and leave the food-induced satisfaction at bay.

Health, you get my vote!

Fast forward 5 months

...and little did I know I wouldn't have any time to write at all.

30 is coming thick and fast and I see excerpts of my life flashing before me, reminding me of my shortcomings and the person I could/should have become. But 30 isn't too bad right? Its not the end of the world, however, I do wish I could turn back the clock back. Yeah, hindsight is a two-edged sword.

I've been on a 5 month hiatus but I don't have much to say. Looks like this 30-thing is hitting me harder than I ever had imagined.

Embracing 2011

Having spent all of my time (after my last post) working and catching up with the family over the holiday period, and then starting a new job and getting to grips with what the new gig entailed, its not surprising that my last post was almost 2 months ago. But hey, better late than never, they say.

On the job front, I can't really complain. I'm working with seniors I've successfully worked with in the past and juniors who exhibit competence, enthusiasm and drive. My salary's up by a decent percentage and my office location is a whole lot closer to home. Most importantly, I'm allowed to be entrepreneurial and creative, something I never had at my previous employments. One month gone, and its looking good thus far.

On a personal level, this is where I think there is much room for improvement. Firstly, I need to get my fitness back. This involves losing my love handles, beer belly and double chin. How will I achieve such a feat is beyond my imagination. But when push comes to shove, "miracles" happen. Nonetheless, I hope to be lighter and fitter without much "pushing" and certainly free from any "shoving". Besides, constant looking in the mirror is all the motivation (reminders) I need to get cracking.

At the top of my list is the need to instill some self-discipline. Most if not all successful men are creatures of habit, and by that I mean having a routine which they stick to religiously. I'll be hitting the big 30 this year and I strongly feel the need to start this decade on the right foot. So discipline, I implore you - come and bid my calling.

Here's to a make-or-break 2011...